Attraction works in many ways, starting with a glance (love at first sight, as some call it) or developing with an unlikely person over time, but how can you tell if you’re ready to move on and dive back into the dating pool after a failed relationship? “The first thing that you need to do, is to become aware of your thought process regarding your ex or whoever it is you’re currently fixated on,” says life, love, and relationship coach,
. “Write down your thoughts (not feelings) as to why you feel the way that you do,” Batista says.
After a bad breakup, can you attract and captivate a man and build real love and trust? “When we are trying to figure out a way to get what we want from an unhealthy place, we rationalize, cope and intellectualize,” says Batista. So what’s the secret to attracting the right person and getting what you want? Check out