There are so many moving parts to a relationship– Attractiveness, trust, honesty, communication, intimacy, just to name a few, so it’s not surprising when you feel hopeless about finding someone to spend your life with. Maybe you have been dating and feel as though you keep ending up in the same unsatisfying, unsuccessful relationship. We ultimately fall for someone because their positive qualities complement our own or even because their negative traits are surprisingly similar, but then you realize that those qualities that initially led you to dating or marrying someone can later irritate and even alienate you! For many of us – it’s the initial chemistry that fuels our relationship, but what if that spark ignites for all the wrong reasons? It’s common to feel as though choosing a life partner is nearly impossible! So – how do you weed out the people that aren’t a good fit for you?